dailydatewithgod

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you wished you could transfer the experience to someone else?  Perhaps it was overwhelming.  Perhaps it pushed you a level of surrender about not being enough.  Perhaps you simply did not want to deal with the person or situation and would happily pass it on to someone who does.  We have all been there.  On my daily dates with God, I came to see that life happens for me, not to me.  It is a slight change of word but very powerful.  In those moments when I would like to do a transfer, I turn to God and say: Really?  Are you serious?  How is this possibly for me?  I may go even so far and say, I didn’t ask for this.  Who would want this?  Can’t it be transferred to someone else to face?  I am certain God smiles at my childish perspective and invites me to stop and take a deep breath.  The only transfer I am in need of is the one from my head to my heart.  Within me, within all of us, is the energy and the courage to face whatever thing or person we would like to transfer.  By pausing, taking a deep breath I connect yet again with the eyes of my heart. With those eyes, I am able to transfer my pain, doubts, frustration, and disdain for the experience to a pool of infinite guidance and wisdom.  In our very being is the presence of God which enables us to transfer out of our fixated mind’s perspective and open to something with more possibilities.  We can allow ourselves through these kinds of transfers to learn more about our capacity to grow in love.