dailydatewithgod

In the third of the 12 steps as designed by Alcoholics Anonymous it says, “Made a decision to turn our will and our lives to the care of God as we understood Him.”  Many spiritual practices speak of the turning over of one’s will to that of a power greater than themselves.  In AA they present the idea in the previous step that you can create your own understanding of this Higher Power.  To me more than anything is in the acknowledgment that it must be a power that I believe cares for me.  Otherwise, why would I be willing to turn my will and my life over to it?  The formulation of this Higher Power is therefore influenced by what I see as care.  It actually took me several years into recovery before I saw the word “care” in the step.  I now realize it allows me to more readily recognize when I have given power over to something that does not care for me.  That could be a person and his or her ideas, an experience, a story in my head, an expectation, a job, a possession, or my own negative thinking.  When those entities are not caring for me, they are clearly not my Higher Power.  I can then take a step back and reevaluate what I am turning my will and my life over to in that moment. Being still, as I learned to do in my daily prayer and meditation date with God, tune’s my ears and my heart to the still small quiet voice of God which cares for me.

When I think about the Christmas story.  It begins rather horrendously: a child born to an unwed mother;  a father who opted to take his betrothed into his house despite him not being the father instead of having her stoned to death; and shortly after his birth in a stable his family had to flee the country or he would be killed.  Yet Jesus still managed to grow up and carry out his mission.  If one were looking for omens, the beginning of his life would not predict a successful outcome.  It is as though there were all these opposing forces to him even having the chance of making it in one piece through his first year of life, let alone go on to carry out his mission of love and forgiveness.  Perhaps the way that Jesus was protected through warnings and angels is a sign that we are protected the same way.  When God’s will is meant to be, it is meant to be, end of story.  It is clearly not smooth sailing or without adversity, but aligning ourselves with God gives us a fighting chance that the mission of our hearts will win out.  God offers the protection of our hearts.  As far as we know Jesus did not spend his life being bitter or cruel to those who sought to bring him harm.  Quite the reverse he preached a message of forgiveness as many times as needed and then some.  Despite his disparaging beginnings God protected his heart which encapsulated his mission so it would be able to carry on.  And because of the adversity experienced, it makes his message that much more powerful.  I find comfort in knowing and having experienced my heart under the protection of God.  I remember it when I am able to see that despite my own disparaging beginnings, I am connected to my wholeness and the love in my heart which is as close as my breath.

I am not sure if it is a growing sensitivity that I have as I get older or if it is a renewal of my sensitive nature that I squashed as a young child in order to protect myself, but the more awake and alive I attempt to show up in the world, the more I am impacted by what I see and experience.  There is a sensitivity to the energy that is in spaces in between people, the breaths in between thoughts, and the silence in my connection with God.  I used to think it was a sign of something wrong.  As though this in between space meant not enough was happening and trouble was looming.  I can see where I have experienced this in my life, especially at a young age.  Now that I am willing to let go of my childhood reality and step into a mature relationship with reality (at least the best I can), I can tolerate the in betweens, the pauses, the silences.  It is a discipline developed from my daily prayer and meditation date with God.  It doesn’t mean I fully accept it but I am less alarmed by it.  I am more likely to believe that it is possible that the in between might bring about good as well as challenges.  It makes life more breathable.  More than anything I know in my heart that the in between is God unseen and unheard but nothing can erase God.  God waits patiently for me to look to the side or up or refocus my eyes.  I am the one who can writhe my hands in frustration or want to get out of it, but I see now that is a protection device.  There is ebb and flow to everything and the moments in between the ebb and the flow are just as precious and necessary as the two sides they bridge.

The energy force of life that guides us from a place of infinite intelligence within us is an experience that we are sometime in touch with.  The power of our being the person we are meant to be emanates from this force of love.  It is the complete and ultimate energy of love that moves all of life forward one step at a time.  In order to tap into this power we must take a closer look.  It is not about getting it so we can used to what we want to achieve in life.  It is about connecting with it so we can remember who we really are and why we are here.  As this year comes to a close many of us are wondering what will next year bring?  How can I operate from a space of power?  What steps do I need to take in order to be connected with the truth of who I am?  Clearly the world around us is always moving forward.  I believe that deep down we all long for an expanded experience and deep inner knowing of what it means to be loved.  In the deep recesses of our hearts and our minds speaks the language of love so powerful.  Our soul sings the song daily even though we have forgotten how to carry a tune.  Yet our hearts still beat and each morning our eyes open.  God, how do you see me?  What role might I be able to play in the powerful position of love today?  I believe I am ready to know the inner workings of my spirit from which I was created.  Help me to let go of the stories and the barriers that stand in the way of my love’s sight.  I want to know this for myself so that I can take the hand from you to my heart and then to my fellow human being walking next to me.  Show me the power of your love and where within me it has been forgotten.