There is a song called my greatest mistake by Sheryl Crow where she sings about a past relationship and refers to it as her greatest mistake. The song title alone makes me smile. What a concept! I have spent most of my life being afraid of making mistakes, of being “wrong.” That is because I personalized it. I thought if I make a mistake, that it meant that it wasn’t a mistake. What a relief to realize that my thinking was incorrect. Actually, when I look at it now, the fact that I saw things that way for such a long time is not a mistake either. It is how I knew how to conduct myself at that time. Now, I know better, so I can do better. I can live freer because I see that being “incorrect” is actually what is perfect for me. It is all in how I look at it. Life is 10% what happens and 90% how I react to it–that includes my reactions to what I say and do. If I see that by making a mistake, I am making something that I can learn from then there is no wrong, there is no incorrect. Or, if you like there is incorrect because it is in-corrrect–heading towards correction. My prayer for us today is that we be willing to embrace our mistakes as God-given opportunities to learn. Make it a great one! Peace~Colleen
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