dailydatewithgod

Sharing my experiences and understandings of the Great I AM.

Be From Watching!

People watching is such a marvelous experience.  Living in Los Angeles affords me the opportunity to be around all kinds of people all the time.  It is easy to be at a park and sit down on a bench for a little bit. People are fascinating.  The best is watching their faces when they interact with others or the things they do when they think no one is watching.  I sometimes wonder what God thinks as he watches his children.  What is God marveling about them?  What makes God’s heart swell when he sees the way they are being with each other?  On an even more subtle level is the opportunity to watch the body language displayed when they come across others it is clear they know versus those they do not.  It leads me to wonder how my body changes when I am around people I know versus don’t know, people I feel safe around versus those I do not.  My interest is in being a student of life and watching how love and opportunities to love present themselves in a multitude of opportunities.  God watches us to ensure that we have some experience of being safe enough to love and sends angels where we need a little help.
My prayer for us is the curiosity to watch ourselves and notice when we are able to hold a posture of being loved in our body and how that affects our interactions with others today. 
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Be From Differently!

One of the simplest prayers that I find myself saying more and more is “God, help me to see _____ (this person, situation, idea, experience) differently.”  I am aware of how easily I go into thinking I know how it is.  I forget to be a learner in my own life.  I get it when it comes to reading a new book or listening to a speaker or taking a class.  But when I have conversations with friends or listen to public figures I have heard before or I find myself encountering a similar experience at work, I find myself operating from an “I have done this before” attitude.  It is a natural inclination of our brains to do this.  It simply takes less brain power to go from what has already been done.  I use less energy when I do and my brain knows that.  It makes sense for survival purposes.  However, the emotional energy can be greater when I have to back out of an assumption or a mis-perception   The love God calls us to live in is more than just survival.  If I am intending to live in the Creator’s universe which is based on the principles of learning and growing in love, I can request help.  In some small way I believe what I am asking for when I pray to see things differently is “help me to see the love in this person, situation, idea, or experience”.
My prayer for us is the courage to show our willingness to be open to learning more of love by asking God to see differently today.
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Be From Ignition!

There is the defining moment in history when beings discovered fire. It was a powerful experience to bring light in a time of darkness and it still is.  Lighting up our lives from within is also a profound experience.  In our inner most core is the light of love from which we were created.  We can live our whole lives not aware of it but often as it begins to dim or dampen our spirit will call to us.  It wants to be ignited but this time it is a joint effort between the one who designed the flame and us the keepers of the flame.  Each day becomes a decision to draw closer to the light and fan the flame or let it go dim.  The ignition required is much simpler than we imagine.  It is a simple choice of attention and willingness.  Being attentive and believing in the power of the light to ignite our spirit will bring us to a place of peace and unity with ourselves and each other.  As we let our light grow and flame, we give others permission to do the same with theirs.

My prayer for us is the willingness to pay attention to the ideas and behaviors that fan the flame and ignite our lives today.
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Be From Connection!

The Creator of All who designed all that is clearly has a wider bandwidth of possibility than we do.  We do like our own fixed ideas about things.  At least, I do.  It is humbling at times that my constant prayer is “God, help me to see this differently.”  I know when I am able to open my eyes to additional possibilities my heart opens up more.  And sometimes I need to go from the heart which is a God job.  “God, show me how my heart sees this experience, person, feeling, idea.”  Once my heart opens, my thinking perspective changes.  It is a continual dance to reconnect those two systems. When I look at physically where they are located it seems as though it should not be that big of a jump, yet it is.  So I surrender that as well.  “God help me to reach my heart from which I currently feel disconnected.”  “God, open the eyes in my head to the messages my heart is conveying to me at this moment.”  God knows we forget the fluidity of connection between our hearts and minds because we think it is one or the other.  God knows all is possible and does not separate the thought from the heart space.  God wants this connection to thrive as much as we do and is more than happy to help reestablish the connection.

My prayer for us is the willingness to humble ourselves and ask for help in restoring the connection between our heart and our mind today.
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Be From Artistry!

Have you ever looked at a painting or sculpture and not gotten what is so fabulously artistic about it? Maybe it’s because you haven’t seen the eyes of the artist when they shared how they created it? Why do we marvel at the drawing of a small child who beams from ear to ear when they share their artistic creation with us?  What is it about knowing that someone has put all they have into what they have created? Sharing out artistry is about sharing the tender part of ourselves.  We all have our own unique style of how we show up in the world and I believe God created us all a little differently so we could be the multitude of expressions of love.  Yes, we are all similar and at our core we are the same.  But the outer expressions, give us a clue as to the magnitude of love’s possibilities.  It is in our shapes and sizes, our voice, our facial expressions, our words, our movement, our energy and most of all our presence.  Nothing is more humbling than just sitting and looking into the eyes of another human being for more than just a flash of a moment.  In a short amount of time we are given the chance to see the light of their soul.  When was the last time you looked into someone’s eyes for more than a moment?  When was the last time you looked into your own eyes long enough to see the light of your soul?  Did you know that is the place God sees you from every day?
My prayer for us is the willingness to be touched by the artistry of presence and know a little bit more of love’s possibilities today.
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Be From Fashion!

A beautiful quality of being alive is in our ability to be molded.  We show up to life and are transformed by its energy and presence.  Life is also transformed by us.  When we walk in relationship with God we allow ourselves to be fashioned more and more beautifully by the inner design from which we were created.  Our fashion is love.  Our fashion is heart.  Our fashion is presence.  Being the truest version of ourselves means we have the ability and responsibility to decorate life.  Decorate the experiences we find ourselves in.  Decorate the interchange with others.  Decorate the intention of our lives.  I am the last person to describe myself as fashionable.  The only fashion I was ever much good at was being fashionably late!  I have learned in my daily prayer and mediation dates with God that the fashion of my heart which has been with me since the beginning sets the course and intention for my life.  My work is disrobing from the layers of stories and ideas that I thought were who I was supposed to be.  Giving away the cloaks I have taken on because I desire to live life undressed to experience the moments of joy and heartache to their fullest.  My outer layers only tell you what I think I am supposed to be.  The fashion echoing and vibrating from my heart tells you who God is and recognizes that beneath all that clothing lies the untouched innocence of love divine.  It is in and through all of us.

My prayer for us is the courage to look past the cloaking of the world and recognize in each other the fashion of our hearts that is shared in each other’s eyes today.
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Be From Neutrality!

I have found the power in the pause between thought, feeling, and action.  In those pauses is the neutral space where I can invite God in.  It started with the pause before the action.  Before I write the email, make the phone call, sign the contract, or say something to someone I can pause and ask God to align my actions with the actions of love and growth.  In the years of our dates and creating the space to see where my mind’s thoughts can take me, I have learned to practice the pause between the thought and the feeling or the feeling and the thought.  Most of the time it is the thought and then the feeling but sometimes they can snowball and it is hard to distinguish which came first. I started by paying attention to the meaning I gave to a particular experience and what feelings would arise.  Even more subtle is the attention to where in my body I experience the feeling.  The neutral space allows me to turn to God and ask, “what do you make this mean? or how do you see this?” Then I can choose to go with God’s ideas which are more expansive than my own or I can choose mine. I am interested in growing in love, so the neutrality practice makes room for it.  It is not about doing it perfectly or being neutral about my experiences.  Instead it is about the chance to bring my best self, the one in alignment with the divine. to the table.
My prayer for us is the willingness to engage the neutrality of the pause before our actions or our thoughts and feelings and open our eyes to the opportunities to be the love we are today.
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Be From Stemming!

When I pause to look at my life these days there is a clear course of purpose from which it is stemming.  As I begin my day on my date with God I back up my intention to live as best as possible in an effective and powerful manner.  I believe my purpose as well as all of ours is to be the light of love in the world.  We all have such unique gifts and expressions of light which the world so desperately needs.  I am more likely to remember throughout my day where my power stems from when I take the time to connect to it first thing.  Otherwise I fall prey to the illusion that my power stems from me alone.  Yes, I am the one who shows up in my life and chooses to allow the power of God to move through me.  But knowing it does not stem from me allows me to let go and be as moved by it as it moves through me.  It does not drain me of energy when the stem is aligned with the root.
My prayer for us is the willingness to connect with God and powerfully emit the light of love we are stemming from the ultimate source of light.
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Be From Innerness!

The beauty of being willing to show up and live with some awareness in this world is strength and character of one’s heart begins to shine.  The word courage comes from the latin word “cor” which means heart combined with the old french term “corage” meaning heart and spirit.  To live courageously means to be moved by the spirit of the heart within you as you walk through life.  Connecting with this inner place inside of ourselves gives us the spirit we need to face things we think in our minds we cannot.  God encourages (gives us courage) us to step into the innerness and stay.  God invites us there and is ready to meet us.  When I am willing to stop running or even slow down enough and consider not running from the thing (idea, food, person, situation, feeling, whatever) that has me distracted and step into the inner space of my heart to take a good look at what I am fearing, God is already there.  God does not condemn me for taking so long or list all the maneuvers of avoidance I enlisted before I got there.  God just says, “Glad you are here.  Now let’s get to work so I can show you the gift that lies underneath the mess you thought you wanted to avoid.” A willingness to approach the innerness is all that is needed.
My prayer for us is the courage to step into the innerness of the root of courage and see what gifts God wants to show us about ourselves today.
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Be From Beneath!

It can be confusing that our eyes look outward at a world.  When we are used to finding the answers to our questions from the feedback we get from our eyes we come to rely on our sense of truth from it.  This is not wrong, but it has its limitations.  Not only will we not find the answers to everything through the filter of our eyes, but we perceive ourselves to see is not the same thing that someone else sees.  In Kundalini yoga we are taught to look with the third eye, the inner eye.  One is encouraged to do their practice with his/her eyes closed.  It is not about evaluating what I am doing against others but connecting with the breath and my body so I am moving in union with the truth of my life force. The idea is to engage a vision beneath the vision of our physical eyes.  When I begin my date with God every morning I close my eyes and focus on my breath.  I imagine stepping into my heart space and breathing into it.  This area beneath the realm of my eyes is not effected by my mind’s perception of it.  It allows me the chance to connect beneath the physical, beneath the expected, beneath the known.
My prayer for us is the willingness to try to connect with ourselves and our world beneath the level of our physical eyes and see what we can perceive with the eyes of our heart today.
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